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Do you believe in love at first sight?

duende · started 2024-10-18 21:14 · updated 2024-10-30 01:03

I think this depends on your definition of love and what love is to you. But, in my opinion, I don't believe there is such a thing. Love is something that gets built over time. Loving someone means you love them with good qualities AND their flaws. ALL of them. And don't forget, crushing on somebody and loving somebody are two different things and can be mistaken as one over the other. Platonic love and romantic love can get mistaken as one over the other as well.

What do you think?

Comments (12)

2024-10-18 23:50 · 2024-10-18

I totally agree with you but i feel like ive met another person and started to really like them over time

duende · reply
2024-10-21 21:32 · 2024-10-21

yeah, like some of my friends' relationships seemed rushed and it kind of bothers me

2024-10-22 00:59 · 2024-10-22

no its developed cause u may not like the person but overtime you start to love those flaws as it goes hand and hand with urs thats for me atleast

gone · reply
2024-10-22 01:01 · 2024-10-22

yeah my friend went thru 3 relationships in a week

1 with a girl
2 with the girl he was dating friend
3. with the girl he was with in the 1st relationship (she dated over like 10 guys idek how he doesnt see the red flag but she buys him candy and all that)

SakuraBeats · reply
2024-10-22 01:06 · 2024-10-22

omg i thougt it was just me i have friend that has 4 bfs in a month no joke

gone · reply
2024-10-22 01:08 · 2024-10-22

yea word

2024-10-22 15:56 · 2024-10-22

I mean I kinda had love at first site with my bf before we started dating but I became friends with him first and got to know him the we became lovers so tbh idk

2024-10-23 00:01 · 2024-10-23

no

SakuraBeats · reply
2024-10-23 00:05 · 2024-10-23

lol same

2024-10-25 18:09 · 2024-10-25

Delusional everything

2024-10-27 02:47 · 2024-10-27

Weird to bring up here...
Either way I agree, love is something you need to work out over time, continuously over and over again.

2024-10-30 01:03 · 2024-10-30

do you really want to know my answer?