tried a suggestion that kurp made.
I routed the signal from the kick to the sidechaininput of a compressor that limits the bass in the Moment the kick hits.
In the original track, I solved this by automating the centroid channel of the bass by always lowering the volume there for a short moment at the time of the kick.
Of course, with the compressor you have much better options to set this precisely.
Hope I can hear the difference on my good speakers later.
I think this could be a sollution for future tracks.
Thanks to kurp
Next try
Upps, I think now its to much...
Very cool